Visiting Santa can be a traumatic experience for any child, especially those on the spectrum. Between having to wait in long lines ( 2+ hours where we used to live), the noise of shoppers trying to get the last minute deals, flashing holiday lights, etc, it can wear on any child. And that before they get to a loud, boisterous man who wears clothes they might not be used to, or has facial hair different than that of a parent.
Christmas time in general can be a it overwhelming to those on the autism spectrum. Too much noise, movement, excitement, etc can just overwhelm them. Malls across America have been working to provide a more inclusive environment for young people wanting to visit Santa by having a sensory friendly Santa meeting – a simpler, calmer setting for visiting setting.
While it varies from place to place, they are usually setting aside certain times before regular store hours to allow those, especially those on the spectrum, to be able to be included in holiday festivities. The lights may be adjusted, and Santa won’t “Ho, Ho, Ho” quite so loud. Since each mall is independently run, not all malls will have a sensory friendly time, and the dates and times will vary from location. So, if you want to take your child to see Santa, check with your local mall to see if there is a better time.
If you cannot attend a sensory friendly time, a friend of ours recently suggested attending during the weekday, when school is in session. It reduces the wait times, and the malls themselves are not as busy with the holiday bustle, which can simplify the stimuli that a child has to endure.
